From a very young age we figured out we had to earn certain things. We were taught to share, be quite, do our chores, smile, say hello, on and on…
We dressed a certain way, we behaved a certain way to ensure our survival and sense of belonging. Wether it was a hostile or a loving enviroment we needed them.
So yeah, it made a lot of sense. We needed these people, so we complide.
Now, as adults. Should we continue behaving as beggars of love? Or should we understand that survival and love were not the same thing?